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Ava Victoria's avatar

really loved this!! pre-vetted "by time, by friendship, by community" yuppp I think that's what's missing in my own dating life. I really wish I could just slow down and let things be instead of rushing a connection. even though I do have good intentions in wanting to find someone, my sense of urgency can come off as desperate or overly picky

Cait's avatar

Thank you <3 I know exactly what you mean. Slowing down is easier said than done

yunyan's avatar

cries in not built for modern dating

Cait's avatar

I feel you 🥹

Ronin 🐢's avatar

This makes such a good point. Time almost becomes an opposing force the older people get instead of one that builds real foundations for long-term relationships

Cait's avatar

Totally!!

Delaney Langdon's avatar

yes and when things don't go according to this unspoken timeline the ANXIETY that consumes is so real... !! it shouldn't be this way agh

we write about similar topics girl, would love to subscribe/read more of each others' workss <3

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Subscribed!